Dear Lynn: Finding a Label for an Atypical Cuckoldress
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Thirty percent of the men who contact me are in healthy, working Female-Centric Relationships, and they simply want to add something more to their already-working dynamic. As a couple, they are open to trying new things and they feel confident voicing their desires in a constructive manner. The other seventy percent struggles with what I call Pasta Submission.
I read an interesting article entitled You Can Get Laid Without Being a Jerk about a letter a woman named Emily wrote to her younger brother and his college friends. In it, she addresses a common discourtesy that men and women show to one another when driven by lust during their interactions with the opposite sex.
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Human sexuality is as widely diverse and intricately woven as the people interested in sex. If the "trauma becomes cuckoldry" theory were true, it would mean that everyone who is interested in cuckoldry has a traumatic pinpoint around which their sexuality developed—men and women alike. Or it may mean that everyone who experiences trauma would become a cuckold or cuckoldress. The likelihood of this, from a logical or even mathematical perspective, is slim to none.
One of the most common problems novice cuckolding couples make is blurring the line between fantasy and reality. While some blurring is to be expected, too much blurring can cause even the best of intentions to backfire. We do not think in terms of risk assessment and analysis with relationships. I want to prepare you for problems you may face along the way and give you a simple solution to each problem you may face as you begin exploring cuckoldry.